What if birth could be more than something to endure? What if it could be pleasurable, empowering, deeply connected—and even ecstatic?
In this episode of The Orgasmic Birth Podcast, Debra Pascali-Bonaro speaks with author, educator, and mother of three, Kitty Stitt, about her unexpected orgasmic birth and the wisdom that has guided her work with women, families, and future educators.
Kitty shares how movement, low vocalization, privacy, safety, and trust supported her through three very different births. Her middle daughter’s birth included an unplanned, full-body orgasmic experience—one that helped Kitty recognize the extraordinary capacity of the birthing body when we are able to follow instinct rather than fear.
Together, Debra and Kitty explore ecstatic birth, birth sounds, creating a protected birth space, secure attachment, and the possibility of raising children within an ethic of love, peace, and presence.
In this episode
Kitty shares the story of her accidental orgasmic birth and the sensations of euphoria, instinct, sound, and deep connection she experienced.
Why low, open vocalization can help some birthing people stay grounded in their bodies rather than moving into fear or overthinking.
The value of an active birth: moving, circling the hips, leaning on a wall, and responding to each contraction in the way your body calls for.
Why a quiet, private, protected birth environment can make space for communication between parent and baby.
The powerful reframe from “tearing” to “stretching” during birth.
How a supportive partner can protect the birth space and offer loving reassurance to both parent and baby.
Why every birth is unique—and why there is no single “right” kind of birth experience.
Kitty’s perspective on secure attachment, responsive caregiving, and finding a few trusted mother mentors rather than becoming overwhelmed by parenting advice.
How peaceful parenting, presence, and loving connection can help shape a more peaceful future.
Practical mantras for pregnancy, birth, and daily life, including: “All is well and I am safe.”
About Kitty
Kitty Stitt is an author, teacher, and mother of 3 happy daughters, and has been in a loving relationship with her husband, Peter, for 30 years. Kitty is passionate about natural birth and secure attachment bonding. She’s taught health and wellbeing in schools across Australia and the world, including lecturing at The University of Sydney in the Faculty of Education. Through facilitating full-moon women’s circles, retreats and one-on-ones, she guides us to discover our true self, align to it and eventually embody it. Her book LIVING EVOLVED inspires us to find alignment, authenticity, and abundance.
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